I went for a quick swim after work just now. I was tired after it and developed some minor flu symptoms. After fetching Ivan, daddy came home to fetch me and we head for centre point to have dinner. I hardly cook nowadays and mil has functions tonight.
I am not sure what went wrong with me. I was very annoyed with Ivan’s behaviour. I ordered a plate of kiddy fried rice for him, he only took 2 spoonful and refused to take anymore. Later he kept nagging me about he has 3 sets of Thomas and Friends train at home and giving me excuses of them not working well la, this and that. Actually what he wanted to tell me was he wants to buy a new train set he saw recently in a nearby grocery store. He irritatingly pulled my sleeve resulting me exposing my bra strap. It really made my blood boiling. I flicked my arms in an exaggerating manner as if I am trying to get rid of a very sticky chewing gum of coz without hurting him. But boy, hubby gave me a hard look and told me off. Gosh!!! I realized that it was a terrible act. People must have thought that I am a heartless mother.
I just hope I have more patients, how can I cope with two in the future when one is enough to drive me up the wall? Gosh!! I need some sleep.
May 21st, 2007 at 11:11 pm
Prudy, you deserved a break…….and a good night sleep.
May 22nd, 2007 at 3:08 am
wah..no worries, probably just hormonal
May 22nd, 2007 at 6:54 am
hang in there…having a baby and taking care of another is super tiring la.
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May 22nd, 2007 at 11:40 am
how about take a leave and give yourself a good rest at home.ya,maybe like Jazz said, just hormone changed.
May 22nd, 2007 at 11:59 am
Don’t blame yourself, it’s probably the hormones, and moreover, you’re nearly due, so I guess everything added up will make you more grouchy than ever… If this grouchyness happens again, why not ask your hubs to bring Ivan away for a walk or something for some time-out for yourself?
May 22nd, 2007 at 12:23 pm
Sometimes it hard to keep paying attention to others and no one is paying attention at us. I think there must be a lot of issue you have in your mind- work, family, baby, labor and etc. Take it easy! We are here to support you.
May 22nd, 2007 at 1:45 pm
ya agree with Jazz, blame it on the hormones…but after giving birth to kylie…ayo i have to admit my patience with kieran is being tested by the day!
May 22nd, 2007 at 4:01 pm
I think hormones is the caused. Guess you really need a rest!!!
May 22nd, 2007 at 4:09 pm
Tell me bout it, I easily lost my temper over Dillon lately too, it must be due to the hormone change. We’ll learn how to cope with 2 when the time comes.
May 22nd, 2007 at 5:08 pm
Don’t worry.. guess you need a break.. Pregnancy can really tire you down..
May 22nd, 2007 at 9:04 pm
I sometimes lose my patients too.. I think it’s just normal, but I feel very sorry after that.
Just today, when she coughed at Zaria, I just very roughly turned her head to the side and told her, “don’t be rude. Don’t cough into people’s face”.. But then I thought, how would she know. This is her first time and I should be more patient and explained to her nicely it’s not nice to do that. Aigh..
May 23rd, 2007 at 7:14 pm
i m having the same problem too..
sometimes, i just cant control myself.. but i feel regret after that.
May 24th, 2007 at 9:36 am
take a day off for a “ME” time doing things you like..
I had mine last Sunday although only 1/2 day - hair cut & pedicure! And read my Harry Potter book!!
May 24th, 2007 at 4:59 pm
blame it to the hormone. dun worry. its yr privelege.
May 26th, 2007 at 2:19 pm
Sometimes I lose my cool too and I feel really bad right after. I will tell myself to think first before acting but most of the time I’ll end up back at square 1 … hehe bad huh! Go get a good massage!!
May 27th, 2007 at 1:00 pm
hahaha…it’s ok to lose your temper. I do it all the time too
May 29th, 2007 at 10:46 pm
Yah-yah, hormone is the major culprit!
But I guess some preggy moms do get hot temper… so just bear for another 2 mths!
May 30th, 2007 at 4:57 pm
friend, no worries lei, another one month plus u going to pop so at that time ur hormone will back to normal.
Like me no pregnant, i also always lose my cool and spank my boys. Maybe we are just too tired and tie up with so many things. Look for me for lunch when u’re moody..so we can yak yak yak..;) cheer up….we all here support u .
June 1st, 2007 at 3:41 pm
mama, weekend is coming up. Do nothing but have a good rest. Carrying extra pounds are like that, super tired. Sometimes you have to tell Ivan that you are tired for carrying a baby all the time and he will be understanding and maybe less nagging from him then?
June 2nd, 2007 at 9:35 pm
it’s the hormone,, anyway, the worse may come, just hang in there……….
take care,
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