I met up with a friend over the weekend. Hubby asked him to get some stuff from China. We had a good chat over Ba kut teh in P. Klang. I have known S since primary school. He is a very talented guy, coming from a very humble family, he is considered successful, building his own empire with his own talent. His wife is my classmate’s sister. They have 3 kids together.
I have no problem with S as we always joked and had fun together. How do I put it? He is a proud man. He would show us (not my hubby), a group of kindergarten’s friend photos of him flinging with other girls from China when he has business trip there. Mind you, there are not one but many different girls having intimate hugs or post in his hand phone. He said his wife does not touch his hand phone. If his trip were 3 days, he would have 3 different girls. Once he told me, his friend could not find hotel room in China, so he brought the girl to have sex in the same room where he stayed. Worst still, he always find excuses in having these entire affair.
For the first time I told him off when hubby was having a puff. Imagine how hurtful the wife is if she happened to see those intimate photos? May be it’s my hormone la, I get agitated. Where is the trust? You are supposed to live with someone that you trust for life. Moreover, he told me if you dun have discipline in China, you would die there. Hello dude, are you trying to tell me u r discipline enough to have only one girl a night? According to him, girls are out there to have fun and thrill, not for money. When they see Malaysian men, it’s like ants see honey. Waliao eh…how to avoid la your love one from doing all these if girls throw themselves to him?
This is serious la, no joke. I really hope that it won’t happened to any of us. I won’t know what to do ler. Do you if divorce is not the only solution? In this case, do u rather close one eye? He is still a very dedicated hubby apart from these affair.
June 5th, 2007 at 1:46 pm
Wah… like this also can? I cannot accept this kind of theory!
Hey, Nice templete~
Thanks! Hmm… I also find it hard to accept.
June 5th, 2007 at 1:46 pm
wah!! so blatantly flaunting some more…really no care also for his wife!! i dunno la, maybe the wife know but just close 2 eyes. she cannot be so dumb dumb one!
I think so too la…
June 5th, 2007 at 2:06 pm
This is unfortunately, really is what is happening to our men in China. The girls in the street really grabbed them and blatantly asked if you wanna bring them home. Even when I was holding on to hubs, a few girls have the audacity to come up to us! Imagine if I were not even there. I count myself lucky that during initial period when I did not join hubs, he was too tired and too busy from work to think abt anything else.
U’re lucky…kekeke! But are they that terrible. Gosh!!!
June 5th, 2007 at 2:49 pm
excuses n rubbish la! When wife find out n threaten to leave him, he will come back crawling n pleading. *roll eyes*
I think even that, he will still do it after a while one. THe fella never change la.
June 5th, 2007 at 3:49 pm
eekk so geli. Please la..ask him to imagine the wife with another man having fun at home on his bed. Ask him how he feel.
THe next time I meet him, I will ask him that. See what he say…
June 5th, 2007 at 4:03 pm
alamak…this is serious la…but i don’t think those china girls are like ants meet honey lo, i think their ultimate mind still wanted money la..
that’s probably the mentality of Older Chinese lady, I think young ones are very different edi.
June 5th, 2007 at 4:35 pm
See la all this “siew long lui” tsk tsk tsk..dont know what to said. Somemore our Go-ve-men said want to bring in china girl as maid!!
Can u believe it, mu husband actually siad it’s a good idea to hire Chinese maid. F###
June 5th, 2007 at 5:10 pm
wah shiaks! so proudly tell ppl summore! so what if he’s dedicated at home when he has such flings,,one thing leads to another, fling can lead to more and see what happened to that director of the tour company that recently went bankrupt, it’s bcos of China girls la!
EH, yea la…I heard news of that director also “WHS”. (Wai Hai Sei)
June 5th, 2007 at 6:18 pm
If it was me…I’d kick him out before he could finish the word ’sorry’…
Hahaha! I think I will do that also, ask for the house and money.
June 5th, 2007 at 6:34 pm
Nice home, worm feel with the templete
wahlau, i cannot tahan this kind of man. I always tell my hubby if you do that you wont see me and my kids in this house. Somemore do you want your daughter be 1 of them?? Go and think of it b4 you do the same to other gals..haha.
Wah, ur philosophy sure scare him one. kekekeke!
June 5th, 2007 at 6:47 pm
This is not the first story I heard about married man hanky panky in China. If possible never allow your husband step foot in China no matter how much money they can earn. Holiday in China with wife and family is OK.
Agreed!
June 5th, 2007 at 7:03 pm
what a terrible guy!
Yea man!
June 5th, 2007 at 11:41 pm
wah liddat oso can!!! i guess girls there are just too cheap..but then again, if the guy don’t ask for it, it wont happen rite
Guys lidat very rare la, given Free also never take?
June 5th, 2007 at 11:48 pm
Lousy guy is giving himself excuse to bed a girl. If he dun take, people give also no use la right?
Eh…true also la… but how many guys dun take one??
June 6th, 2007 at 12:57 am
Feel so sorry for his wife. wonder what happens if his wife were to do the same thing eh?
I think he will be pissed la. It’s always very unfair one. Husband can do but if wife do, she will be condemned kau kau.
June 6th, 2007 at 9:03 am
What more can I say…. he better pray his little secret will stay with him till the day he dies… and I hope he learn to put on ’safety’ as to not hurt his wife/chewren even more… Gosh… the thought of it make me sick. why men so ‘hak yan chang’?? Hmm….
I think he doesn’t mind also if his wife ever found out. *Sad*
June 6th, 2007 at 10:41 am
i have no respect for this kinda ppl… so bad things somemore can be so proud… &%#%^&
but somehow, i hope the wife found out, since he dunno he’s at fault… whether it’s a fling or affair, it’s infidelity, it’s cheating on the wife…
n’way, i think China is a bad place lor… even my FIL that day telling, say if ever any of his son go china to work, his DIL MUST follow, else he won’t allow… hahahaha… say there very ‘dangerous’… hahaha
Your FIL so supportive of DIL. Good la!
June 6th, 2007 at 2:12 pm
My goodness, haven’t he heard about STD? So what if wear condom..sometimes can bocor also. Worse..if transmit to the wife. *shakes head*
June 6th, 2007 at 10:08 pm
OMG… *tsk* *tsk* shameful shameful….
June 7th, 2007 at 12:30 pm
Tell u wat, nowadays girls outside really very very “Tai Tam” even they know those guys are married and for guys they really can’t tahan the “Yan Yau” :(.
June 7th, 2007 at 11:16 pm
yeah, the china girls nowadays will do anything to grab your men. Sometimes, it really depends on the men’s will and the moral behind that person. My hubby travels very frequently and almost a lone ranger to China, US, and recently Vietnam. Luckily he’s so stingy and always remind himself the intention of gals out there is targeted at his money. I heard lots of stories from me coz he shares with me even he has collegueas who actually have affairs with “xiu long lui”. Being so stingy, he passed the “yan yau”. Thank God!
Lucky you!
June 7th, 2007 at 11:17 pm
Sorry , I heard lots of this affairs stories from my hubby , not myself… haha!
Man sure interested ma…;)
June 8th, 2007 at 12:29 am
Ahem…. If I were S’wife, sure cut and cincang the “didi” and then throw it in the toilet and flush it!! ha ha..
Again, divorce is the only way. He is so proud of his “act”, I dont think he will ever change.
If the govt allows China maid here, sure got lots of broken homes cases in the newspaper. Those china girls, very “hungry” for money.
Aiyoo…wah u so “LONG- cantonese” want ar? Hahaha!
Actually, this is only one stories, they so many untold one. If got time ar…I want to share another one that was an actually experience from my mom n MIL.
June 15th, 2007 at 3:23 pm
I can’t be the ‘close one eye’. If this ever happen …. he can kiss goodbye to me and the kids.
June 15th, 2007 at 6:04 pm
Dedicated my ass!! Maybe he’s dedicated b’cos he feels sorry.. his way of compensating for his humsup ways!
If me, I’ll also kick him out.. and yes, money, house, car, kids all mine!