For me, weekends are God made heaven. I would long for doing things with my son or husband. However, I am disappointed sometimes, as hubby is a late owl. He does not sleep until 3am in the morning and wakes up at about 12pm the next day. I have been catering to this kind of lifestyle for years. He would wake up early only if I force him to or we have some important family gatherings. When told him about how I like him to bring Ivan or me out for morning tea on Sunday, he would always say yes, yes, I would wake up early tomorrow. So much promise, however, when tomorrow comes, he would sleep like a pig. If I attempt to wake him up, I will be scolded. Gosh!!! I hate this so so much! When I ask him about why can’t you sleep early the day before? His reply is “You are not me, you can never understand”. Aiyoo, Man! Always have excuses to cover their asses.
On the other hand, Ivan is getting very sensitive over every single daily thing. He would wail and throw tantrum over minor things. I can never give in to his behaviour. I whacked and scolded him a lot lately. I know I shouldn’t be doing that, I am trying to control my emotions but I just can’t cope with so much noise and commotion. Poor little fella, he lost so much weight. The other day, while crying, he stamped his feet hard on the floor while questioning me, “Why u beat me everyday”, Why u scold me everyday”. Waillllllllllllllllllllllllllllll. *Sigh*
Got some of these stuff from Fabulous mom a while ago when they had sales. Preparing for the arrival of no. 2. Got this Adiri - Breast Bottle, thinking to let the confinement lady feed her at night so that I could rest well. I purchased 2 nursing tops, a bra and a milkmaid tea here as well using my ppp money. Kekeke!
June 6th, 2007 at 2:14 pm
I see you bought sometime similar to the Boppy. It is a very useful pillow.
June 6th, 2007 at 5:50 pm
Sure heart wrecking to hear Ivan said that words out….
June 6th, 2007 at 6:05 pm
I totally feel you in the 1st para, because my other half does that too! Pisses me to no end… but I’d given up nagging already 唉，江山易改，本性难移！
June 7th, 2007 at 12:25 am
Last time i also used to beat and scold my son, but luckily he didnt said i always or everyday scold or beat him. If not i sure will cry out and regret so much. I’m sure you will hard breaking when your son said it to you like that.Dun feel so sad, i’m sure pregnant lady got so much emotion problem.
June 7th, 2007 at 10:39 am
i think this is common to all the pregnant mum…
June 7th, 2007 at 11:38 am
I was just browsing thru the nursing bras but not sure if they are any good to buy from Baby Loft. Any recommendations?
June 7th, 2007 at 12:33 pm
Don’t feel quilty as I’m not pregnant also always scold my son coz of the stress I get from work. As long as we realise that then you are consider a good mother. Cheer up ! as the No.2 is coming soon
June 7th, 2007 at 2:12 pm
hi, was hopping by. heart wrenching to hear those words, but have you prepared him for the arrival of his sibling? he may be feeling insecure, if he feels this way now and not getting the assurance from you that you love him, he may resent the birth of your new baby.
i know hormones to play up, we get cranky all the time, especially the last weeks!! uurrgghh! : )
but kids show their honesty best, they don’t know how to hide feelings, yet. try listening to him.
do forgive if i sound nosy, just my two cents
cheers~
June 7th, 2007 at 3:17 pm
nice posting, love it!!!
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June 7th, 2007 at 3:23 pm
Prudy, should i need to buy the nursing bra? I just have one which bought last time, and barely used it actually…
June 7th, 2007 at 5:02 pm
I scold my girl a lot too though I am not pregnant.
June 7th, 2007 at 8:35 pm
I know my boy was very manja when I was pregnant.
Yala..I think it’s common also. I am used to it edi. Thanks!
June 8th, 2007 at 9:59 am
Heh. Don’t worry about it. Irfan gets scoldings from me too. And I’m not pregnant.. YET! Hahahaha.. Chill lah, it’s normal.
Yea…thanks for stopping by.
June 9th, 2007 at 12:33 am
hey ….I too have been scolign ashley alot - ever since the arrival of aidan..I’ve lost my cool so many times…I feel to guilty after that……for me…it’s the hormones plus lack of sleep!
hey….THANKS SO MUCH for the goodies!
You’re most welcome. Now u also can make edi wor, Bravo!!!
June 11th, 2007 at 3:51 pm
poor Ivan…lost weight again? but hormone thingy ma..still one month! do excited 4 u!!
Thanks! Feeling a little jittering now!
June 11th, 2007 at 10:22 pm
Aiyoo, for a moment I felt for Ivan there. Maybe it is affecting him more cos of the baby’s impending arrival.
Yea, I feel bad too. But He is getting better now, I tried telling him more of I love you and he is a clever kor kor.
June 13th, 2007 at 3:02 pm
aiyo, i also scold my brandon alot lar. if he knows how to say it, probably he will say the samething … why scold and hit me everyday.
Yalor hor, so poor thing but if dun discipline also cannot. Perhaps we got mixed up with scolding as discipline?
June 15th, 2007 at 3:29 pm
I’ve been scolding them almost everyday … as they grow older I scold more because everyday also fight … aiyo .. headache oredi. Btw, you are having a girl ah? I tot I read in your older post its gonna be a boy??? *Confused*
June 15th, 2007 at 6:00 pm
He said you are not him and you cannot understand him? haha.. but what he does woh staying up till 3am?
You bought the Adiri milk bottle? Tell me later if it’s really good huh?
Clever also you.. cannot go to shopping mall.. shop from the web.
Ivan ah.. aigh.. same like Zara la.. cry cry cry.. sien.. but I guess we need to understand their emotions also.. must be insecurity right?