Confinement lady’s Contact Baby 2 months old
Sep 04

A little update of my girl, she is a fun girl; she loves to smile. Whenever I feed her, one of her hands and fingers would tickle me on my waist. Haha! And she loves to talk back with eye contact if I make “gu gu” sound. No matter how tiring and sleepy I am, the moment I see her smile, all worries would varnish in the air. It’s nice having daughter you know, somehow I have stronger connection with girl, may be I am breastfeeding her as well. She has put on quite a bit of weight, I could feel it when I hold her heavy head while burping her at night, my hands ache, yea, no joke. This girl drinks more than the brother.

Talking about Ivan, he is ever demanding now. Sometimes appear to be so caring about his sister but at times super jealous. He woud ask for me, “ME” only to make milk for him when I am in the middle of feeding adel. He also developed a habit of beating people. I just got whacked by him on my right arm after waking up from his sleep. You know sometimes, I have to be soooo patient, I can’t beat him also when the father is around, the father has all his super duper *irritating* comments on me but hardly lay his hands to help. [ On the other hand, to be fair to him, he has done a great deal during my confinement. Seeing him busy for our stuff during day time and work during night time, I was touched. Thanks you daddy! Only you have a little more patience, we would have avoided a lot of arguments]

Yea, you’re so right, after the no. 2 comes, there is hardly peace in the house. Totally, absolutely NO me time. Ouch! my arm hurt, thanks to my lovely son who looked like a starving African kid with obvious rib bones that can be count. Me so mean hor? I was worried about him however, his appetite is back now after 2 weeks of bugs. I admit that I have spend less time with him lately resulting him indulging himself on TV and computer games. Well, he eats faster while facing the Mac. Hmm…as long as he eats…and I do limit the length of him facing the computer.

Thanks for all your comments and encouragements. I do read them but I have to apologize that I have very little time left for blog hop. I will if I have some spare time.

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19 Responses to “A smile”

  1. jazzmint Says:

    she’s so cute

  2. khongfamily Says:

    She’s very pretty.

  3. Jesslyn Says:

    wow, her eyes so big!

    Give Ian some times, I am sure he will slowly show his love to his mei mei!

  4. Yvonne Says:

    Wowowowow.. she is a beautiful baby indeed. She has that ‘happy’ look. Sure ‘lum’ sei everyone. One side of her eyes has double eyelid, one side doesn’t.. like my Ryan.. sometimes I see them, sometime (most of the time) I don’t.. :( I have always wanted my children to have double eyelids like mommy :P

  5. twin Says:

    such a happy bb. hmm the normal la sibling rivalry .. my kids are the same … one moment sooo good another moment fighting like cats and dogs ..its a phase. hope it won’t go on too long. :) great to see u back.

  6. ShannonC. Says:

    wei wei… hang in there…
    hopefully soon Ivan will learn to love Adel all the time… I think he need time to adjust also…
    and Adel looks VERY VERY SWEET… MUACKS MUACKS, give her kiss kiss from me yeah… :D

  7. Annie Q Says:

    Adel look so pretty and she got a pair of big eyes too! And she is very fair too, like “ang moh” lei..;)

  8. mom2ashley Says:

    oohhhh she is very cute and pretty!
    hey….ashley is also like ivan….purposely wants me to make her milk or carry her while I am tending to aidan…I think it’s normal…

  9. sharine Says:

    she’s cute and got lots of hair too… you take care too right now you got 2 kids to look after, not a simple task anymore. It’s normal for Ivan to be jealous, try to spend more time together and create bonding close between the siblings.

  10. Sasha Says:

    wah wah she look so different from our last visit

  11. huisia Says:

    she has pinky complexion.
    jo also super cranky, hubby said i should give more time to him and try not only give attention to baby, huh? of course i would care the baby first if both of them asking for attention, right? Like what you said, they only know how to comment this and that, but none if comes to help.

  12. Malaika's mummy Says:

    Adel is such a pretty girl. So adorable.

  13. Adeline Says:

    Well, it’s perfectly normal for Ivan to feel jealous of his sister. Just remember to include him in your daily routine. He needs to know that you’ll still be there for him despite having a little sister now. As they grow older, you’ll notice the love/hate relationship between them. Happens in all families!

  14. mommy of 2 angels Says:

    aiyah what can u expect from the man!!!

    your girl make your day lor!

  15. Mommy to Chumsy Says:

    Adel is so pretty ;) Just like her mommy :D Having a daughter is nice..especially when you shop for her clothes :D

  16. Tracy Says:

    Adel’s very ‘jin ling’ and I’m sure her smile will definitely melt u.

    As for Ivan, it’s normal for him to have this jealous feeling. All the while before his mei mei came to the family, he had all the attention from u and daddy but now he feels dat most of the attention has been focused on mei mei. I guess u’ve to explain to him dat he’s as important as mei mei and I’m sure he’ll come to understand gradually.

  17. blinka.Li Says:

    aiyo, so leng lui liao!! But she does not quite look like you already! Cant really say she looks like her dad too…Yeah…must be nice to have a dotter!! Especially if you have one who is healthy and pretty and cheerful like yours! Hmm..looking forward to have one too!! :)

  18. zara's mama Says:

    Doesn’t look much like Ivan ler..

    And very feminine looking. :P

  19. KittyCat Says:

    Your baby girl is SO pretty! Nice smile :-) Hoping for a baby girl myself hehe

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