Jul 22
I have been out from hospital for almost a week already and now I am all alone with help of my mil to cook for me. Adel was warded for Photo therapy for the pass 2 days. She is much better now; she drank a lot and poo a lot too. Everything is fine until my maid told me about the smoke in our 3rd floor. SMOKE! Ciggy smokes that my confinement lady left. Sri observed her for 2 days when we were out at the hospital to make sure she doesn’t wrongly accuse her. She also found cigarette in her bag that was left open. SHOCKING! Who on earth would suspect a confinement lady smokes? It’s as worst as a surgeon having shaky hands.
I was resting most of the time and didn’t pay much attention to details. When these things were spotted, there were more to come from my mil. She said she was shocked too to find out my confinement lady serve me cool tofu from the fridge; when she asked her to warm it up, cl said no need one, nowadays we are modern one unless “I” ask her to warm up. She also noticed my cl doesn’t use a single drop of saseme oil on her cooking. Other then that, she uses tap water to cook red dates water for me instead of our filter water even though Sri told her a few times that we don’t cook with tap water. Unfortunately she refuses to listen until we took action.
Enough is enough, sigh! Kena scolding samo from hubby saying why I let her climb over our head so on the day we found out the ugly truth we fired her. She was shocked, apologized and said she would change and that she never smoke in our house. Well it’s only understandable that she denied it. Who on earth would hire a smoking CL if it was told prior to hiring? She appears jitter too and always rushing me and hubby to finish our food so that she could eat and relax and perhaps go smoking. Anyway, my body is pretty weak right now due to lack of sleep. My new CL is here already; I hope she would take good care of me.
Here I just want to warn whoever that has taken contact from me that if you have hired her, you might want to reconsider your options. So beware la. My hubby asked me to share this so that she won’t hurt anyone as it can be bad for the mother if she falls into wrong hands of an unprofessional CL.
Jul 15
Our daughter- Baby Adel (pronounce as er-dell) .

She arrived on 11th of July, 2007 in the evening at 6:13pm; Weight - 3.18kg.
It was a planned induce 0n Wednesday. We checked in to the hospital at 10am. Took 2 hours for CTG test; clearing bowel; registration. Dialation was only 2cm at that point; started our drip at 12pm, real pain only came after 3:30pm. Called doc for epidural, done at about 4:20pm. Feeling high and drunken, both legs were numb and slowly the serious dialation started at 5cm at 5:30pm. Feeling sleepy but relax, when doc came to check me at 6pm, it was already 10cm. Huh, luckily she hasn’t leave yet. So started my push once, twice and there came my precious daughter. Haha! Fast eh? Finally everything is over.
I stayed at the hospital for 3 nights as Adel needed to go for photo therapy for her Jaundice. It’s kind of worrying even now, the fifth day, I noticed she turned yellowish again this morning and she sleeps way too long this afternoon. It’s always ache at the heart seeing little one not well. I am really worried about her right now, hopefully she is okay after 2morrow’s check up.
Jul 07
No Sign of baby yet. I went for a check up on Friday and did a CTG to check if baby’s food and Oxigen is sucfficient. According to gynae, baby’s heart beat chart wasn’t very good. If there’s no news yet on Monday, we will admit to induce on Tuesday. Looks like my tummy is so cosy that little one prefers to stay inside. I am so heavy now, 67.5kg from 50kg.
Meanwhile life is getting a little bored and I have no mood to go out kai kai due to the big fat look I have now. I know I shouldn’t be saying this but it’s a little torturing to wait like this. 
Jul 05
Thanks for all your concern and sms-es. I am still here and baby is still inside me tummy. Feeling a little painful last night. Hopefully she will come soon. Incase you are wondering what happened to me these 2 weeks. Haha…me like disappearing lidat hor? Actually nola…just enjoying myself reading, watching movies, eatting and lots of sleep preparing for THE MOMENT. The sign are there already, I plan to see gynae again if she is not here yet on Friday. May opt for induce.

Brought Ivan to watch his favourite movie Surf’s Up in the cinema. He was delighted.
Jun 20

It’s coming already. Look at my big fat tummy and swollen face. I am extremely moody as well lately, feels like crying sometimes. Can’t stand a drive from office to mil place as well. I would be all stressed up if I am in a car for too long. Arrgh…my virgina feels like it’s gonna explode. I walk like an old duck but luckily weight is still the same as last week~65kg. I get tired very easily and a little anxious about the arrival of HER.
My back ache and painful at the pelvis area, I couldn’t sleep well at night too. So much suffering eh? I am waiting for you Sunshine.
Jun 20
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Jun 20


In case you are wondering, I am not selling you pregnancy underwear and nope, they are not mine.
Have you ever wondered how maids get away with cash stealing sometimes? Mil has lost lots of valuable cash and jewelery to her ex Indon maid. She has stolen my 1st year anniversary’s gift from hubby, a South China Sea pearl earring from Anita.
Yes, those are the culprits with zip. So can you imagine now? They can put all sorts of stuffs inside that pocket in front of the panty and sometimes wearing more than one panty with goodies before disappearing.
MIL showed me this pair where she bought in the pasar malam for about RM 5-6 each. Her Cambodian maid is leaving for good and they have difficulties giving her bank draft or transferring money to her in Cambodia as they have no access to bank account. So the agent advices to give her cash in USD. Worrying for her hard-earned money, she bought these panties for her to keep her money safe and sound. Hmm… can one sit properly with a few thousand USD right in front of you private part? No idea man, may be I should try it one day. Have any of you used panties lidat before? Do you feel safe with your valuables? Do share with us. Hah!